Here is a great resource to take you step by step to comfortably talk and support your children as they may face some big life decisions in adolescence.

http://healthfinder.gov/prevention/ViewTopic.aspx?topicId=65

You can even look at this website together!

Drug topics:
http://teens.drugabuse.gov/mom/index.php

There are many resources in writing in the health office as well as guidance office.